Yeah! So my crazy plan is to get my middle son to move down here to FL and live with us for awhile. I think he needs to be back under my thumb where I am controlling the shots. I want to help him break the cycle that he is in. Start a new life for him. Second chance if you will. He can stay with us for awhile while he gets the medical treatments that he needs, and counseling etc. I want to help him build back his self esteem, that he is seriously lacking right now. Just help him get his head on straight and get healthy and like himself again.
I no doubt will need double dozes of acne treatment. I am sure I will break out like crazy from the stress, and probably have a tad bit less hair, from pulling it out..but I feel in my head that I have to try. How can I live with myself if I don’t try to help him. He is all alone on PA. I feel like he needs me. I feel it in my heart that he needs me. I may live to regret this, but at least my heart will know I tried and gave it my best shot.
Getting him down here wont be easy. He has to talk to his probation officer to get permission to move everything down here. She isn’t over fond of him, but I hope she gives in and lets it happen.
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November 17th, 2009 at 11:14 am
Good luck with your wayward son. I know how trying this can be. Believe me. Been there and done that.
Have a terrific day.
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November 18th, 2009 at 10:01 am
I think the worst thing you can do right now is bring him back home. You really need to think about yourself and your kids. I know it must be the hardest thing watching YOUR baby hurt himself the way he does, but he isn’t going to change if you bring him home and start helping him. Drug addicts are master manipulators and users (I know I was addicted to prescription pills for 15 years) Maybe you could find an in-patient treatment facility near your home and you could bring him straight there and let him know if he goes through the whole treatment program (30, 60, 90 days – whatever they think is necessary) then he could come home. You have heart problems and 2 little babies who don’t have anyone BUT you. I hope this works out for you, you really deserve some peace in your life.
Sheila
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November 18th, 2009 at 11:37 am
Good luck with that no matter which way this goes. I’m sorry but I think Sheila sultani is on the right track …
November 18th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
you can not help until they are ready to help them self I had a daughter kinda like your son when she finally decided to join society she went back to school and become a nurse I think she is the most careing child I have but you have to do what you feel is right tough love is the hardest