My husband has decided that Candy Girl needs a new family. He has made the decision, that because of the kids we now have, we don’t have the time to take care of her the way she should be taken care of. She has been sort of put on the back burner. He found a new home for her, and will be taking her there today. He will have the new owners write up a paper stating that if they decide for whatever reason that they no longer want her, she is to be returned to us. He is also making them agree that we have the right to visit her from time to time, to make sure she is ok and being taken care of.
This is breaking my heart every which way a heart can be broken. She is MY Candy Girl. She was only 3 pounds when my husband brought her home to me as a gift. She had me at hello…I took on look at her and my heart melted. She has been my Candy Girl for the past 4 yrs. She was here before the kids. So ungodly not fair. I do not agree with this decision at all…not one little bit. Maybe I am selfish…I don’t care. He is right, I don’t spend the time with her like I used to…but that doesn’t mean I love her less. Since the kids came, they take all my time. But that doesn’t mean I don’t love my pet. She lays at my feet when I am sitting and keeps my toes warm when I am on the computer. She is my shadow when I am walking around the house doing things, so much so, that sometimes I almost trip over her. She has been my constant companion for the past 4 years. She loves me all the time. She never yells at me or ignores me…her love is unconditional. I am going to miss my dog so very very much.
I did talk to the woman who is going to be her new owner. She appears to be a very nice woman. It is just her and her husband. Her daughter and 3 yr old grandchild used to live with them, and has now moved away. The woman wants my dog to love she says, to fill the void that is now in her life. Oh I pray she treats my dog with pure love.
Goodbye Candy Girl….I will never ever forget you. Nor will I ever own another pet for as long as I live, because this just hurts tooo damn much. I wonder if I will ever stop crying. Sure doesn’t feel that way right now.
November 7th, 2009 at 3:11 am
Oh sweetie, I am sorry. Pets are always there for us through good & bad.
Does you hubby know how hurt you are by this? If not…u need to tell him.
I hope he changes his mind.
((((hugs))))
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November 7th, 2009 at 3:27 am
Wow. You definitely need to have a conversation with your husband. I cannot imagine he would want to give your pet away knowing how much you love her and want to keep her. I know there is no way I could even come to a decision like that without my fiance agreeing to it too. I hope it works out for you.
November 7th, 2009 at 4:26 am
Wish I can have her. She’s so cute.
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November 7th, 2009 at 6:41 am
I am so sorry about your dog.If at any time I told my wife she needs to get rid of the dog all hell would break out.I am sorry he made such a bad decision.
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November 7th, 2009 at 7:25 am
I actually have tears in my eyes. What’s hubby gonna do when you get sick and can’t spend as much time with the kids? Of course I’m exaggerating, but – he CAN’T give your baby away. Sounds like maybe he isn’t getting enough attention. Go rub his tummy and tell him he’s a good boy, maybe he’ll change his mind.
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November 7th, 2009 at 7:47 am
Ohhh… this is very sad. Candy Girl is adorable. I don’t really understand this, but if it has to happen, I hope Candy Girl will be well loved and happy in her new home, and I hope you will heal from your loss.
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November 7th, 2009 at 10:23 am
That was sad. I also have a shih tzu and I don’t know if I can bear the sadness you are having right now.
November 7th, 2009 at 10:54 am
This just breaks my heart. I hope that things work out for Candy Girl. Good luck to ya.
November 7th, 2009 at 11:21 am
A pet is major part of any family, well caring families with hearts that is. Your husband is a cold-hearted man, that needs to have reality check…
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November 7th, 2009 at 11:35 am
Oh I feel so sad for you and Candy Girl.. I hope Candy Girl would be happy in her home..
It all sounds so unfair but I’m sure it is for the best.. for both you and your Candy Girl
Hugs
LJ
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November 7th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
WOW! I am in shock. Not only can I not believe he would do this, but that you are letting him. I feel so sorry for you Bug! I dont even know what to say. I’m sad about this turn of events.
November 7th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
Just tell hubby you want to keep her unless you think it is best for her i tell everyone if i die before my baby i want him put to sleep and buried with me because no one can love that cat as much as i do
November 7th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
That’s a heartbreaking post, I am sorry for your heartache. Decisions like this are always hard and hope Candy’s new home is as loving as yours seems to be.
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November 7th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
Aww big hug. I know what it feels like to lose a pet. The unconditional love is what makes it so special. They are not really pets as much as they are a part of your family. My heart goes out to you.
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November 7th, 2009 at 8:32 pm
I am crying as I write this…
I cannot believe that your husband would do this!!
Pets sometimes take a backseat, but that in no way means they have to be gotten rid of.
I would fight every step of the way…
Pets are like children, and should not be thought of as disposable.
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November 7th, 2009 at 11:18 pm
I know your heart is breaking, but what a beautiful unselfish act.
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November 7th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
Oh HONEY, this just broke my heart… sigh… I live with 5 dogs, all rescues, and it would break my heart to be without them. I’d best hold my tongue, I have a problem with people who don’t realize how much a part of our heart they are. I don’t call mine pets, I call them my animal companions. I don’t know what I’d do without them. Please know that you are in my thoughts and in my heart. This is just so sad, there are no words, really.
Much love and a warm gentle hug…
Maitri
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