SpicyBugz World

I feel like chatting. Of course I am chatting with myself, but I will pretend you are listening/reading me. Whatever, I am writing to myself…hahaha that sounds better.

I can only blog when my family doesn’t need me. Which seems to be more and more these days. My fingers start to click on the keyboard, and booom, family drama time. So if your wondering where I have been, I have been changing 2 sets of diapers a trillion times a day, feeding the baby, playing with the baby, burping the baby, washing the baby etc etc…Or I am teaching Mini Bug how to talk correctly, how to count, ABC’s, name different animals and the sounds they make. Cleaning cooking, laundry. Taking doggy to the groomer, dealing with the pool service people about the leaks in my cement pool. Taking kiddies to Dr appointments. Dealing with my sons back in PA, answering a trillion phone calls a day..so on and so forth. I am tired.

When I was blogging under Mrshellonheels, I had tons of readers, but I was a different blogger back then. I blogged differently. My life was an open book on my blog and I put a lot of personal very personal things on my blog. I don’t do that anymore. I also had tons of pictures on that blog of my family. I don’t do that anymore either. The rules changed when I became the mother of these two angels. When I was HoH my sons were adults. I could post their pics etc, there wasn’t any fear of them being harmed. Now I have to small children. Dr. Corny forbids their pictures to be posted on the internet. At least full face frontal pictures He said, Bug, there are so many freaking sicko’s out there. Be safe, Be Careful, Do not do it. So I don’t, and he is right! I can’t fight right.

So, I blog, I try to share my life without sharing personal Identifing information. Sometimes that can be hard for me, because I’m like an open book, I like to tell and share all. No can do anymore. So now I censor myself somewhat, ok, a lot. But it’s for the childrens saftey. I promise when they are big enough to protect themselves, I will spill more beans ahahhaha.

So life is hard, and starting next month it’s going to get even more hairy. Dr. Corny starts his Ph.D program next month, and between working full time and his classes he is going to be a missing in action husband and daddy. This is really important to him, and of course to me, because it is his dream. He is a freaking genuis I can’t take that away from him. If anyone can earn a Ph.D he can. But I know it’s going to take a lot of sacrifice on all of us to get it done. The rewards shoud be sweet tho. I am as dumb as a box of rocks, but I had the intelligence to marry smart

Ok, I’m super tired now and the yawns seem to be coming from my toes. You know the yawns that actually hurt. So that’s all for now.

Oh and in case your wondering where the bug comes from in my name. my husband actually calls me bug, it’s his nic for me, he has called me bug for the past 11 years. Short for lovebug. Spicy, well…that one speaks for itself!